It is all about trust

It's all about trust
Without it u won't go far
It's all about trust
Without it.... without it, love is just plain love.

Love needs trust.
To love someone, one needs to learn to trust
One needs to realize the importance of trust
One needs to know how to trust
One needs to learn how to trust
One really needs to learn how to trust.
One needs to know how much it hurts the partner when they feel they can't be trusted
And seriously, it really hurts.

How is love without trust?
It's like living in a world without air.
It;s useless.
The love is pointless.
What will happen with love without trust?
Same thing will happen with living in a world without air.
People will die. Love will die.

Trust is very very important in a relationship. Don't jump to conclusions about your partner. Everything can be settled if both just sit down and discuss about it...nicely. No harms done.

Lagi Kes Buang Anak di Toilet!

 

Kes kali ni dasyat. Dasyat sebab melibatkan bakal guru. Nak jadikan cerita, bukan seorang punye angkara. Tapi 2! Manusia..manusia... Nak buang anak pon ajak kawan ke? Terok betol.


Nak dijadikan cerita.. Al-kisahnya...

Pada suatu hari, si A yang perotnya tengah sarat berkata kepada si B, "Aku rasa masanya dah tiba! it's coming!". B pon mengalami perasaan yang sama tentang anaknya. Betol2 kuat chemistry mereka berdua ni.. beranak pon nak serentak.

Nak dijadikan cerita, mereka sedang berada di dalam campus time tuh. So, mustahilla  nak keluar and masa semakin suntuk. So, mereka berdua bergegas ke toilet yang terdekat iaitu di Gym. Baru bukak pintu toilet gym about 2 inches, mereka nampak ade seorang student perempuan dalam tuh. Si A berkata lagi, "Line xclear la sini, xley jadini, kita kene carik tempat lain cepat! aku serious da xtahan!". B menjawab, "Alah, peduli ape, dia sorang je, belasah jela kat sini". A balas, "Mana bole! kantoi la nanti!"..

Lalu mereka pon bergerak dengan pantasnya ke Blok Pentadiran yang terletak tidak jauh daripada gym. Mereka menapak  ke tingkat satu blok tersebut dan terus menuju ke toilet. Malang sungguh nasib mereka, ketiga-tiga pintu toilet di tingkat itu tertutup rapat menandakan ada penghuni. A dan B sudah berpeluh, anak-anak mereka mungkin sudah tidak sabar untuk melihat dunia. Tanpa membuang masa, A terus keluar daripada toilet dan menapak satu tingkat lagi. Alhamdulillah, nasib mereka baik, toilet kosong, tidak berpenghuni. Mereka pun masuk dan berjaya melahirkan anak mereka.

Usai melahirkan, flush ditarik dan masing-masing keluar dengan muka yang lega. Akhirnya, berjaya juga mereka melepaskan hajat selepas berpusing-pusing di kampus mencari toilet yang kosong.. Kasihannnn.... Nak o'ok pon susah... huhuhuu...

Ini adalah KISAH BENAR ok?

2 Hours and a Half Drive to Watch Movie

Maybe some of you don't think a movie worths a drive that long, but hey, i'm studying in Kualal Terengganu and the nearest entertainment i have is 2hours and 30mins away from me ok? Well, maybe i'm a bit exaggerating, there are other entertainment here in K.T but, the nearest cinema is really 2.5 hours ok..quite far, but when u r driving with the person u love *ehem ehem**, didn't feel that far.. in fact! i can go there every weekend if i wanna.. haha...(but who's going to pay for the petrol tho??? -_-

Basically, today, we went out.. from K.T, we drove (well, he drove) all the way to Kerteh to watch movie at Mesra Mall. We watched THE OTHER GUYS. Seriously, the movie was really really really really funny!! i'm not kidding ya! it really was! i laughed my head off all the way thru the movie. And, the most amazing thing happen, he who would always fall asleep in movies, did not, i repeat, DID NOT fell asleep this time. That proves how funny the movie was. ha.ha.ha.

the one and only cinema in terengganu. TGV

After movies, our tummies were grumbling and playing rock songs, so we decided to have our late lunch at Pizza Hut. I was eager to try the new recipe, what was it called? Extreme Cheese or something like that. haha.. I was quite surprise with the treatment and service i got from the workers there. They were like, MAKAN GAJI BUTA or something... gosh man, WE PAID FOR THE SERVICE TAX U KNOW!!! they were very slow in doing their work, and they served without a smile, and were kinda rude! they even ignored us when we asked a favour. Gosh, and the new pizza, it was not that great anyway... it taste, if out of 10, i give a 5.. it was a so-so.. nothing special.

enjoying the not so specially delicious pizza

After lunch, we went home. On our way, we had a pit stop at Rantau Abang. Gosh, the beach is beautiful there! the waves were huge tho, maybe coz it was gonna rain.

lawa kan clouds dia

ps ; i love u!

Why can't friends be honest?

It's so ironic isn't it.. You have been friends for so long, and yet, when it comes to honesty, you failed to do so. When your friend did something wrong, you don't have the courage to tell them nor to correct them. Yet you choose to talk behind them, say bad stuff and mock them. You go and tell others, you don't like what they did. In front of them, you act normal, as if nothing happened, as if you are their best friend.. Is this fair? Is this how you want to life for the whole of your life? Is this what you call true friendship? If you can't depend on your friend to be honest, than who can u rely on? You may say family, but dear readers, emotionally, friends are a part of family. You know why? because u have spent so much time and shared so much memories with them and they are like family to you.

I know, being honest can sometimes be very difficult when the issue could end your relationship. But that is the whole point, truth does hurts!Being honest with your friend becomes a tug of war of morals and salvaging what you are afraid to unveil. But there is actually a way to tell the truth and being honest.

1. Honesty is the baseline- when you want to confront, be respectful to your friend and phrase your sentence nicely and politely. Or, just be casual!

2. Remind your friend that you are doing this because you respect them, and not because you want to conspire against them. Also, you want them to change for the better.

3. Respect the way your friend accept your comment. DO NOT JUDGE THEM BY THEIR RESPONSE TO YOUR COMMENT! If they want to be mad or upset, LET THEM! Because, being a good friend is being honest and be there when the honesty was blown to their face.

Bottom line here is, if your friend did something wrong, correct them. They maybe don't realize it. Like the old saying goes, one's mistakes can only be seen by others. All you need to do is talk! words can be really powerful. If you continue talking behind their backs and keeps planning conspiracy, then nothing will be solve, matter will just get worse!.
 

Why go and tell everybody you don't like their actions, when the solution is just go and tell them?

Holiday is Finally Over

What more to say? the title says it all.. haha
4 wonderful weeks of relaxing and lepaking in my own home sweet home.. baiti jannati..
Tonight i'll be going back to hell, for idk, say 2months of torture till the next upxoming holiday. Gosh, 2 months is such a looonng time. But hey, I'm gonna fill it up anyways, i always do. I got all my lovely friends, my deary lover, and enemies to entertain my life.. ahahaha..

So, how did i spent my 4 weeks of heaven? Well, for a start, I went to Puchong to babysit my lil cousin,Khalif, for a day, and i got RM50 for that. Woohoo! Then, came back home, and help Qila with the preparation for her sister's wedding, Kak Mona. And, joyfully, babyboi was there too.. heehee. happy.happy.happy moments!

The next week, before he went back to Marang, the four of us went to watch movie together. well guessed, we watched the most famous movie of the week, the most talked about: LAGENDA BUDAK SETAN! ahahahaha... nice movie it was. although the dialogues are a bit funny when it supposed to be sad.

we went to Johnny's after the movie.lol.

When he left, well, it felt like haven left with him. I had absolutely nothing else to do. Just stayed in my house and went online for 24hours. haha. Well, that's just being hyperbole.. everyday my routine would be: wake up, do some cleaning, cook, online, watch tv, online... ahahaha...(what's my point?)

The next week, my family went shopping at KL for my bro who's going to further his studies at uitm segamat. So he need some new clothes and whatsoever. it was rather boring shopping for him. haha.. the best part was, it was my first time driving in KL.woohoo! we stayed in puchong and we got lost on our way back.. ahaha.. but eventually, we found the route after a bit past an hour on the road. Next day we went to IOI mall, and played bowling and watch KARATE KID. awesome movie. enjoyed it till the last minute! ily jaden smith! haha.. such a cute boi he was.

I also bought a software dvd consists of several video editing software for RM12. Unfortunately, when i got home, and tried to install ulead videostudio(one of the softwares), it didn't work! n i tried another one, and another one, and another one, and it all wont work! damn! have been sabotaj! haha.. i got really pissed off and cursed the man who sold it to me. i can't return it to him coz he's all the way back in puchong and i'm back in rembau. damn u. So, i went to Terminal 1 and bought another cd. this time, it's just one software per cd. the lady said, " usually, one dvd per few softwares, never work". OK, thanks for that info lady. This time, i managed to intall it. woohoo!~ (again?). Now, i am ready to start my video editing! i have a few ideas in mind. heeheheehehe....just wait haaa....

p.s: what a boring holiday u might say :P

Tanda-tanda lelaki jatuh cinta

Bila lelaki benar-benar jatuh cinta dan setia pada kekasihnya dengan ikhlas,perubahan sikapnya amat mengejutkan. Hati lelaki yang dianggap keras selama ini, tiba-tiba secara semulajadi menjadi selembut kapas apabila sudah jatuh cinta dengan relanya. Bahkan lelaki yang mabuk cinta sanggup berkorban dan buat apa sahaja untuk kekasihnya.Sekeras manapun hati lelaki ia akan mengalirkan air mata apabila hatinya dilukai. untuk melihat lelaki menangis amatlah payah.

Diantara tanda-tanda lelaki yang jatuh cinta dengan hebat ialah:

1. Dia bersungguh-sungguh melakukan sesuatu untuk kekasihnya dengan rela bukan kerana terpaksa.

2. Dia sentiasa ingin menghiburkan kekasihnya dan berubah menjadi orang yang kuat bercakap.

3. Dia banyak menasihati kekasihnya kerana dia amat menyayangi kekasihnya.

4. Dia berusaha mengongkong kebebasan kekasihnya kerana perasaancemburunya yang meluap-luap.

5. Dia sentiasa takut kehilangan kekasihnya.

6. Dia sentiasa mengawasi pergerakan kekasihnya kerana dia sentiasa berasa curiga.

7. Dia tidak suka ada lelaki lain rapat dengan kekasihnya.

8. Dia mudah merasa cemburu dan sensitif apabila kekasihnya tidak menumpukan sepenuh perhatian kepadanya.

9. Adakalanya dia seperti seorang anak kecil yang meminta perhatian kerana dia mahu kekasihnya melayannya lebih dari orang lain.

10. Dia menjadi orang yang paling rajin dan sanggup membantu kekasihnya melakukan apa saja.

11. Dia pandai merajuk hati kerana ingin dipujuk oleh kekasihnya.

12. Dia akan mengelabah apabila kekasihnya berjauhan daripadanya terlalu lama.

13. Dia sentiasa mempastikan keselamatan kekasihnya.

14. Dia mementingkan kekasihnya daripada dirinya sendiri.

15. Dia kerap bertanya adakah kekasihnya mencintainya kerana dia merasa kasihnya lebih kuat daripada kekasihnya.

16. Dia tidak akan melayan perempuan lain yang tidak ada urusan penting dengannya.

17. Dia cuba meluangkan lebih banyak masa dengan kekasihnya walaupun terpaksa menunggu kekasihnya dengan sabar.

18. Dia membanggakan kekasihnya di depan orang lain.

19. Kalau ditinggalkan oleh kekasihnya, ia akan berasa serik dan tidak percaya dengan cinta perempuan lain namun dia sentiasa mengharap kekasihnya kembali kepadanya.

20. Apabila timbul orang ketiga, dia akan hilang akal dan sanggup berbuat apa saja untuk merebut kembali kekasihnya.

21. Dia menganggap kekasihnya sebagai orang yang paling dipercayainya dan sanggup menyerahkan harta walaupun nyawanya sendiri.

22. Dia tidak akan berlaku curang kepada kekasihnya namun jikalau dia dia berbuat demikian itu bererti hatinya belum 100 peratus mencintai kekasihnya.

23. Bukan semua lelaki sanggup menitiskan airmata hanya untuk seorang perempuan.

                           HARGAILAH MEREKA

8 Jam Bersama Janda Muda

Location: ct aishah 2.1


Hari ini isnin. Semalam ahad. pandai aina. pandai. semalam aku naik bas. balik terengganu. dari rembau. eh, seremban. aku tido sepanjang masa. dkt bahau, ade sorang akak n anak dia kecik dok sebelah aku. aku wat bodo. sambong tido. ngantok. sampai keratong, benti makan. aku sambong tido. akak tu turun. anak dia tinggal kat dlm bas. tido. tibe2 anak dia bangon. mcm nak nangis, tp xnangis. tapi cari mak dia. aku kate "mak ade, kat bawah tgh makan. adik dok sini ehh". dia dgr ckp. dia dok diam. tapi muke resah. xlama pastu, mak dia naik.

Mula lah sesi berborak dengan akak itu. dia gelarkan diri dia kak Ti. rupa2nya dia janda. Umor baru 30 taon. aku terkejut. dia sangat open bercerita dengan aku. aku layan je la. pengalaman baik punya! dia ade anak 3. paling tua umor 10taon. exhusband dia 32taon. hubby dia curang dekat dia. hubby dia driver bas express dari terengganu ke kl. mula2 keje ok. everytime balik, bagi duit kat isteri. lama2, isteri smell something fishy. bau kat badan laki, bau perfume lain. duit pon da xbagi. rupe2nye da ade pompuan lain kat kl. cis. mintak kawen 2. kak Ti kata, ceraikan dia. Kak Ti xnak bermadu. macam tu je dia cakap. xde pujuk rayu lansong ke hubby dia. wowh. dia cerita kat aku pon tanpa perasaan sedih.

Banyak tips aku dapat dari dia pasal laki. Huhu.. suke! Dia kata:

1. Jangan percaya pada lelaki yang menangis mahukan anda. Itu dusta
2. Jangan merayu pada lelaki kalau dia ade perempuan lain. Biarkan...
3. Jangan terima balik lelaki yang pernah menduakan kita. Dia akan mengulanginya
4. Jangan mudah mengalah. Bila laki tinggalkan kita, itu bukan akhir dunia.
5. Teruskan hidup. Jadikan perkara lalu sebagai pengajaran.

Kak Ti kata, lepas mereka cerai, hubby dia ade pernah nak baik balik dgn dia. Kate rindula, menyesallah, tapi  Kak Ti tau, itu sume dusta. Bak kata dia " laki ni dik, mereka menyesal kejap je, bile mereka rindu, mereka datangla carik kita, yelah, da lama xtido dgn kita kan, bile da dapat nnt, mule la buat perangai lama balik"... sungguh dasyat sekali.. Dia jugak cakap, mase mula2 nak ajak kak Ti kawen, nangis bagai nak rak. Last2 skang, sanggup tinggalkan Kak Ti demi seorang perempuan yang baru  dikenal. Oh lelaki...

Sekarang ni Kak Ti xbekerja. dia ngn anak2 dok dgn parents Kak Ti. Aku tgk hidup dia sgt bahagia bersama anak2. Dia sangat sempoi. Macam xde masalah ape pon. Aku sangat pandang tinggi pada perempuan macam Kak Ti. Dia tak "mati" selepas satu kegagalan.  Kalau satu hari nanti aku jadi macam dia, aku harap aku dapat jadi sekuat dia.

Kak Ti asal dari Marang.