I have a fren. yep. a fren. it's a she. I'm not that close to her. But she chose me for her shoulder to cry on. Poor thing. She hardly shares her story to people. But today, she decided to. maybe coz, she has to share it. Too much on her, she need to let it out. But she has no one. Except me. Why me?
Anyway, it's about her love life. It took her quite some time to tell me the whole story. Coz, she herself, doesn't know what is wrong with her relationship. Is this possible? Can one be in great misery but doesn't know what causes it. I guess it is, since it;s happening to my friend. She was crying when she told me the story. I felt sorry for her. All i can do is listen. I'm not good at giving people advice. So i just sit, stare and listen.
It has been a week that she and her bf had a "fight", or so it is called. When i asked her what's the cause, she doesn't know. But they just argue a lot. About.... things. How things are before. How things are now. About their differences. About individual acceptance. It's sooo complicated. She just cry and cry and cry. She said, she sees no more sparks in their relationship. So i ask, why don't they just break up? But she said, she just can't. She said, deep down inside, she believe, they are meant to be. Gosh, how I hope she is right. But with all the differences, are they meant for each other??
Then i ask her, what is she going to do now? And how is her boyfriend taking this? She said, they considered the case as settled, even though no ends are met. What's the point of continuing fighting. So they consider it settle, and move on with their lives. But, emotionally, she suffers. I feel so sorry for her. She said, every night since last week, she shed tears. She became so fragile when thinking of their future. Gosh, how i don't want to be in her shoes.
While listening to her story, i remembered a song. Maybe this song can make her strong again. Maybe it can give her hopes again. Maybe it can boost her spirit up again in their relationship. The song is about two people who are in love, but come across obstacles, and it seems like there is no hope for them. But, they remain strong, and didn't give up bcoz they believe, one day, they will be together. All they need is each other.
Believe in yourself. Believe in ur partner. Believe in your love towards each other.
Hampir ke Situ
Aku sadar bukan mudah
Untuk mengejar mimpi indah
Pernah suatu ketika dulu
Ku punya harapan besar
Kini aku tak pasti
Dapatkah ku miliki
Sudah jauh kita tempuh
Kekalkanlah impian lalu
Mungkin ada hikmah
Yang akan menunggu
Di penghujung jalan
Biar nanti kecewa
Setidak-tidaknya mencuba
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/m/mendua/hampir_ke_situ.html ]
(korus)
Jika halangan menduga perjalanan kita
Janganlah kau putus asa
Karena ku ada di sisi setia menemani
Andai semangatmu gugur
Genggamlah tanganku
Kita hampir ke situ
Adakala ku terasa
Ketabahan tak setegar
Tetapi apakan daya
Berhenti separuh jalan
Percayalah padaku
Aku yakin kita mampu
(ulang korus)
Biar orang katakan
Rapuhnya harapan
Bukan mereka tentukan lagi
Kau ada aku dan aku punya kamu
Amanlah akhirnya tetap bersama
ps: i really hope things work out well between them. InsyaAllah.
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